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  • The Power of Conversations and Community

    The Power of Conversations and Community

    In a world where so many people feel overwhelmed, disconnected, or pressured to “have it all together,” community matters more than ever — especially for women navigating growth, change, healing, purpose, and ambition. At She Could, we believe meaningful conversations can be transformational. Sometimes the right conversation doesn’t just fill time — it shifts perspective,…


  • When You Ignore Your Gut: What Paradise Teaches About Discernment and Dating

    When You Ignore Your Gut: What Paradise Teaches About Discernment and Dating

    What Was She Thinking Podcast In Paradise, the women are constantly faced with decisions that test their instincts. Teri ignores critical information that could have led her to safety—putting both her life and her husband’s at risk. Annie, on the other hand, chooses not to leave with a man who later becomes the father of…


  • Are Black Women Facing a Modern-Day Witch Hunt in 2026?

    Are Black Women Facing a Modern-Day Witch Hunt in 2026?

    Could the recent uptick in removing women of color from positions of power—positions of thinking, leading, and influence—really be a coincidence? In my African American Studies courses, I learned that advancement in the U.S. often follows a predictable pattern: white men are given access first, followed by Black men, then white women, and finally Black…


  • Sis… He Put You in Danger. Why Are You Still There?

    Sis… He Put You in Danger. Why Are You Still There?

    If a man ever put me in danger, I would like to think that would be the end of the relationship. No debate. But everyone is human, so I get it. While analyzing the recent series Cross, my co-host and I took a closer look at Elle, Alex’s ex-girlfriend and primary love interest. In season…


  • Cul-de-Sac Dreams: Seeing Myself in the New The Burbs

    Cul-de-Sac Dreams: Seeing Myself in the New The Burbs

    I used to think I lived in a circle. That’s what I called the round stretch of pavement right outside my front door growing up. It wasn’t until high school—or maybe even college—that I learned that little circle had a name: a cul-de-sac. It wasn’t until I became a mother that I realized cul-de-sac living…


  • Can You Manifest a Man With a List?

    Can You Manifest a Man With a List?

    I tried to create my dream man from a checklist. I can’t help it — I’m a list maker. I love the satisfaction of checking things off and feeling productive. Lists keep me organized. They help me feel intentional. So when it came to determining what I wanted in a mate, making a list felt…


  • Why Bridgerton Makes Me Think About What I Haven’t Told My Daughters

    Why Bridgerton Makes Me Think About What I Haven’t Told My Daughters

    In the new season of Bridgerton, the story continues not only its obsession with love, but its deeper exploration of tradition — how we court, how we marry, and what we teach our daughters about both. Once again, the season is filled with wild choices the men ask the women to make. Sacrifice this. Endure…


  • Will Trent Season 4: Is healing supposed to look this messy?

    Will Trent Season 4: Is healing supposed to look this messy?

    Is Angie carrying Will’s baby, and we just don’t know it yet? Is Will losing his grip on reality now that therapy is cracking open old wounds? A new season of Will Trent is here—and I am very much here for it. I’ll admit, it took me a minute to fall in love with the…


  • The REAL Sin in Sinners

    The REAL Sin in Sinners

    I recently listened to a podcast where several white men cited their main complaint about Sinners as the final scene—specifically, the moment when Smoke kills Klansmen. But is that really the “sin” we’re meant to focus on? Religion has always been an important part of my life. At the same time, it has also been…


  • Is Perfidia Beverly Hills a Jezebel?

    Is Perfidia Beverly Hills a Jezebel?

    Did I just watch a visual representation of the Jezebel trope in Paul Thomas Anderson’s 2025 film One Battle After Another? Written and directed by Anderson, the film presents itself as a story about a fractured father–daughter relationship, rooted in a lie about the whereabouts of the child’s mother. That mother—Perfidia Beverly Hills, played by…